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First to preface I am a 21M in med school (doctor schooling)

1. How do I manage multiple people im talking to with time commitment issues? Ik many of yall work and stuff and I was on campus from like 8-8pm today, most days 4-5. I have like 60matches off 3apps, 36 on hinge. How do I go on most dates, and maintain matches. But when I’m in a spot with multiple people I run into an issue of scheduling dates, not overlapping etc, finding time. I tried one at a time but with hinge and almost everyone dating multiple people at a time, im not tryna be a sucker again. How do I prioritize who I schedule with first and how do I maintain/schedule in the rest? Im in a spot where I talk to people then im juggling a lot and nothing is working.

1b. I’m also in a spot where I get matches but it’s like a 1-3 text convo then silence, or no response, or when it goes to text message it dies immediately while planning a date. Idk how im messing up or how it changes. Like sometimes ill be talking to someone, have a full blown convo go to message then it dies after a date plan attempt. Or quick number receiving then it dies after trying to plan. This goes along with question point 3 btw.

1. How do I go about my dating style and conveying to people what I want. I am genuinely someone who is looking for long-term relationship. But with med school stress and time commitments, I am also very happy with casual fun. Idk how to secure h\\\*\\\*kups that I could totally have (fumbling) but idk the methods there. Also with long term, idk how to go about figuring that out too and how I should be going about it.
   
2. I wanna ask like how do you text on dating apps (quick in and get phone, try to small talk get vibes then phone, etc). Then once you are on text, what should u be saying? Tired of getting matches or numbers and not knowing if i should full blown convo on app then number (and then what on app straight to date plans) short and get number quick convo there then date plan, quick date set up (idk how long i should be texting, how much to text, small talk vs not, etc). I get numbers and it dies after suggesting a date idea. Or full blown convo on hinge then it dies on text asap or etc etc

4.Date ideas: maybe im killing the vibes for h\\\*\\\*\\\*ups (who wanna do a date first then ya know) or for long term. Im usually suggesting puttputt then food/ice cream. Anyone have better suggestions? Or suggestions for either situations? Really need advice on how to not kill the vibe off a date idea.

Tldr; how to manage multiple people, be able to have long term hopefuls or h\*\*\*\*ups, how to text/and how much to text on hinge/dating app then how much on text then small talk vs straight to date, and finally date ideas to not kill text convo immediately.